If You Think You Have It Bad

Yeah, I know. Nobody likes to hear the trite clichés about starving people in the world when they’re having a bad day. I can’t speak for anyone else, but people of my generation have been inundated our whole lives with this kind of thing, from the famine in Ethiopia to those Sally Struthers commercials - “for less than the price of a cup of coffee per day…” It’s not something I’m proud of, but I have to say I’m more than a bit desensitized to this problem.

So I was a bit surprised how much this story bothered me:

PORT-AU-PRINCE, Haiti (AP) — It was lunchtime in one of Haiti’s worst slums, and Charlene Dumas was eating mud. With food prices rising, Haiti’s poorest can’t afford even a daily plate of rice, and some take desperate measures to fill their bellies. Charlene, 16 with a 1-month-old son, has come to rely on a traditional Haitian remedy for hunger pangs: cookies made of dried yellow dirt from the country’s central plateau.

The mud has long been prized by pregnant women and children here as an antacid and source of calcium. But in places like Cite Soleil, the oceanside slum where Charlene shares a two-room house with her baby, five siblings and two unemployed parents, cookies made of dirt, salt and vegetable shortening have become a regular meal.

“When my mother does not cook anything, I have to eat them three times a day,” Charlene said. Her baby, named Woodson, lay still across her lap, looking even thinner than the slim 6 pounds 3 ounces he weighed at birth.

Though she likes their buttery, salty taste, Charlene said the cookies also give her stomach pains. “When I nurse, the baby sometimes seems colicky too,” she said.

I’ve not always been the best provider for my family. A few years ago, we were on food stamps for a while, and received a couple of boxes from a local pantry. We were borrowing money to make rent, and I will freely admit that I was failing in my ability to do all that I could to make ends meet. I was stunned that with a college education and a fairly high level of intelligence, I couldn’t find a decent job. And I kept resisting taking a cashier position at a supermarket to get us by, thinking that if I just kept holding out something better would come along.

Those were hard times for us. It was tough on our marriage. It was a tough life lesson for me. But even if that was my bottom - as low as I had ever been - I never had to feed my family dirt so that they wouldn’t starve.

It kills me that situations like this exist. That there are people in the world today - just off the coast of this great nation, in fact - who can’t afford rice for heaven’s sake. I have twenty pounds of the stuff in a rubbermaid bin in my kitchen. I paid less than $10 for it.

I’m not saying I know how to fix it. And I’m not a bleeding heart going on and on about poverty all the time. But it’s real. These are real people with real lives, and they need help. And I don’t know how to help them.

Kind of puts things in perspective, doesn’t it?

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4 Responses to “If You Think You Have It Bad”

  1. We shared that same story around our dinner table last night. The thought of eating dirt to stave off hunger pains is unimaginable. We do extra things during Lent, like eat more dried beans and rice and give money saved CRS. But, I am thinking we need to add it to our “regular” routine. Maybe Fridays.

    I am so conflicted because we are also trying to eliminate debt and that saved money looks so tempting to put other places…..

  2. There is very little we can do, other then drop our spare change, (or preferably, alot more), into an appropriate charity. Lent is coming up, might as well make good use of the fasting and prayer. Unfortuneately for alot of us, that’ll be the only thing we can do.

  3. I’m glad to see you addressing this. It bothers me when people make light of this to avoid any sense of personal responsibility. I take a long term view of the solution- have a lot of kids, teach them to care for others and hopefully they will become missionaries, priests, nuns and be able to help people who suffer like this.

    I can’t escape the feeling that we will be judged harshly for having so much and sharing so little.

  4. several years ago (well, ten!) I was in a rather delicate state of health and feeling quite depressed. I read an article about a leper hospital that was being closed by some government somewhere. The people in there didn’t have leprosy any more, but had been inmates in the place as refugees from the world who still looked upon them as pariahs for their deformities. They had been in there all their lives, some were in their 80’s, and had nowhere to go.

    I think I cried all day.

    Haiti has been officially classed by several UN orgs as “hell on earth” for some time. I know people who have gone there to help and they say it is unimaginable. Hardened veterans of aid work, people who have spent lots of timein AIDS clinics in the worst holes of Africa, have broken down in Haiti.

    I think the country ought to be cancelled. Reboot it somehow. It defies solutions.

    Pray to Pierre Toussaint. It will probably avail nothing but to make you feel slightly better.

    But at least you’ll feel slightly better.

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